One of the key features of the sociopath is that he sees everyone as essentially the same–a piece of meat to be butchered. Sociopaths look at everyone this way, regardless of personality, skill, or ability.
A big strong guy with a black belt looks the same to him as a sleeping little girl. The sociopath understands that both their skulls open the same way, their eyes yield to equal pressure, and they both die when their throats are cut.
The sociopath disregards the things that set them apart; he will not interface with their personalities, or the big strong guy’s black belt-level skill, or his massive muscles. He will only concentrate on the things that they are both susceptible to.
In order to use violence successfully, in order to have an equal chance of survival, so must you. Don’t get caught in the sucker’s game of interfacing at higher levels, of showing respect for the person, his skills or physical power. Go straight for the meat.
The Four Levels of Interaction
As a person – social
This is trying to change behavior, mood, or motivation. This is where most people would like to keep the situation.
As a skill-set – anti-social
This is trying to out-wrestle him, or out-technique him in a 90 mph (144+ kph) chess game. This is a duel in which the most skilled practitioner will typically win. It is ‘civilized violence’ and seen as ‘fighting fair.’
As an animal (via strength, speed, stamina) – anti-social
This is pitting your strength against his, trying to out-maneuver or outlast him, going blow for blow – this typically looks pretty brutal and ugly. A lot of struggle where the best specimen prevails. This is seen as brutish, desperate and decidedly ‘uncivilized.’
As a piece of meat – asocial
This is regarding him as a physical object beholden to the natural laws of the universe. Paying no heed to the person, the skill, or the ability. This is seen as almost universally ‘bad’–people who do this naturally are classified as ‘evil’ in a social setting. This is interfacing with him as a thing that can be broken down and rendered nonfunctional.
It’s interesting to note that these four levels correspond to different ranges and comfort zones.
Interfacing with the person can be done from across the street, a distance from trouble where most people feel safe (they can always take off running if it gets out of hand).
Interfacing with his skill-set is almost always done at a pace away, with the contestants circling to get a feel for the other guy’s skill level, feinting and parrying and otherwise dancing around. It’s all about giving yourself enough room to see what he’s doing and try to counter it.
Interfacing with his physical abilities is done skin-to-skin, but that’s as deep as it goes.
Interfacing with the frailties of the flesh is done beneath the skin–true injury is about disregarding the sanctity of the body and simply destroying it.
What-ifs, Buts and Maybes
The kinds of questions people ask during training can tell you a lot about where their head is at and at which level they’re stuck on. The important thing to note is that none of their worries have any impact on injury whatsoever.
The person who is uncomfortable with the whole idea of conflict will ask questions that dance around the issue from across the street, like, “How can I tell if he wants to hurt me?” and such.
People trained in martial arts usually get hung up on interfacing with his skill. They’ll ask the most what-ifs, like, “What if he throws a spinning back kick?”, “What if he counters my joint lock?” and “What if he’s holding the knife like this?” They are also overly concerned with blocking–both in doing it and worrying about having it done to them.
Untrained people who can come to terms with the idea of conflict usually end up fixated on physical attributes. For smaller, less athletic people it manifests as worry about how they’ll fare against bigger, stronger, faster adversaries; big, strong folks have the opposite problem–they typically believe they cannot be defeated by ‘lesser’ beings.
Sociopaths & Butchers
Almost no one shows up comfortable with injury as a starting point.
Another interesting thing to note is that progressing through the levels is not linear. Socialists don’t usually walk through the others to arrive at injury. They go one of two ways–either they dig in their heels and cram their heads into the sand and will never, ever cross the street, or they go straight from where they are to injury (though sometimes with a short stop-over at the animal level).
Duelists are another thing entirely. It is often very difficult to wean them off of the idea that they need to respect and/or thwart his skill before they can be effective. If they do move on, it’s usually with a long stop-over at the animal level. His skill bothered them before; now they’ve transferred that worry to his physical abilities. Those who have taken the long walk from skill to animal to injury are typically the most evangelical about the whole process. (As opposed to those who went straight from social to injury. They usually don’t see the whole experience as that big a deal.)
Animals are easier to nudge into interfacing directly with the meat of the matter. They’re pretty close, conceptually, and they just need to be shown how to direct their efforts away from strong points and into the weak ones. (Instead of going strength-to-strength, go strength-to-eyeball.)
If you’re reading this I’m going to assume that you don’t have a problem with violence in a general sense, that you’re not hung up on the social aspects from across the street.
So where are your hang ups? What are you stuck on? Are you worried about what he’ll do if he’s skilled? Or bigger-stronger-faster? Be honest with yourself. You’re letting yourself down if you lie–you’re not going to get any more effective that way.
If the idea of going after a trained Goliath makes you sweat (more than the usual, healthy amount, I mean) then you need buckle down and study up on injury. Seek out photos of sports injuries (for broken joints and twisted, nonfunctioning limbs). Autopsy reports from non-firearm killings–especially where the victim was beaten to death–are illuminating. Troll the internet for videos of prison fights and violent muggings.
Essentially, look for anything where the survivor is interacting with the other person as a piece of meat.
You’ll be repulsed and comforted simultaneously.